In the first of the three new photos, Hoehn's cropping brings the focus to Mary Beth's face and away from the cars and sunset in the background.For the second one, she added a black border to make an already beautiful photo fit OKCupid specifications.It's important to use as many photos as your dating site of choice allows.Hoehn upgraded Mary Beth, an OKCupid dater, from one, far-away shot to three beautiful photos that better demonstrate who she is as a person. With thousands of profiles scattered across a variety of different networks, making a memorable first impression is critical.It turns out that having a good profile photo could be what makes the difference between receiving messages and getting passed over for another profile. She's the founder of Profile Polish, a one-woman business that helps daters to make over their profiles and potentially attract more matches.
I'm not talking about photos of you making a funny face, though I don't quite see the point of those, but why include photos that simply aren't flattering? 3) Photos of yourself when you were a little bit younger (five years? Let's operate on the assumption that we all think we looked better when we were in college.
Unless you are Benjamin Button, if you've been out of college more than 30 years, those photos aren't helpful 4) Have more than one photo, ideally more than three or four.
If you only post one and it's really flattering, there may be the perception that you just happened to get lucky.
Putting my own online dating reputation at risk for the better good of online daters everywhere, in particular our own users.
My previous post was based on improving the way men message women.